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What We Do and Why This Matters

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Cemeteries are not empty land.
They are records of lives, families, communities, and history — and once they are damaged or erased, they cannot be restored.

TheCemeteryLady.com exists to document, monitor, and report on what is happening to burial grounds across the United States — quietly, legally, and often without public awareness.

Every year, cemeteries are impacted by development, rezoning, neglect, environmental damage, and administrative decisions made far from public view. Permits are issued. Boundaries shift. Records disappear. Notices are published and forgotten.

This site was created to ensure those actions are seen, recorded, and understood.

The Cemetery Lady is an independent public-interest project focused on facts, documents, and accountability. We track public records, court filings, planning decisions, permits, and preservation efforts related to cemeteries and burial grounds — from small family plots to historic cemeteries.

We do not sensationalize.
We do not speculate.
We report what is happening — and where to find the proof.

Our Mission

What We Do and Why This Matters

Our Mission

 

Our mission is simple:

To ensure that burial grounds are not altered, removed, or forgotten in silence.

We believe:

  • Cemeteries deserve legal clarity, physical protection, and public respect
     
  • Families have a right to know when burial grounds are affected
     
  • Communities deserve transparency when development intersects with the dead
     
  • History should be preserved through documentation, not erased through neglect
     

The Cemetery Lady provides daily, time-sensitive reporting so readers can understand what is changing — today — before decisions become irreversible.

By collecting, summarizing, and linking original source documents, we create a permanent record of actions that might otherwise go unnoticed.

What We Do and Why This Matters

What We Do and Why This Matters

What We Do and Why This Matters

 

What We Do

  • Monitor public notices, permits, and filings related to cemeteries
     
  • Track development and rezoning near burial grounds
     
  • Document disinterment requests and preservation efforts
     
  • Provide historical context for affected sites
     
  • Preserve records for future reference and accountability
     

Why This Matters

Once a cemetery is disturbed, moved, or erased, it is too late to ask questions.

Transparency is preservation.
Documentation is protection.
Public awareness is accountability.

TheCemeteryLady.com exists so that no burial ground disappears quietly — and no decision affecting the dead is made without a record.

Cemetery Stories & Insights

Cemetery Updates & News

TODAY – Feb 9


• Cemetery legal description removed from official records of Barnes Cemetery in Hampton, Virginia  

• City is expected to approved development to historic Barnes Cemetery  

• The City of Hampton refers to the cemetery as "former" not "inactive" 

• Headstone damage reported / preservation effort underway  

• One article worth reading:   

Private Cemeteries In Virginia: The Law Of Ownership, Maintenance, And Access Virginia Lawyer • December 2023 


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